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What is Meant to be…..Will be

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Well after a stressful week, last night my husband and I withdrew our offer on the house.

I am sad, but I definitely know it was the right thing to do.

At this point we need to put a pin in it and start looking again in the spring.  Looking right before the holidays is/was super stressful.

There were many signs yesterday pointing us to this choice.  This house obviously wasn’t “the one” and when the time is right we will find the perfect fit for our family and then we will know why it didn’t work out this time.

For now we have plenty of other things to keep us busy!!

19 responses to “What is Meant to be…..Will be”

  1. Carla Laporte Avatar
    Carla Laporte

    Sorry to hear, but hopefully it takes some stress off the holidays. Spring is a better time to move anyway 😉

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  2. theutopiauniverse Avatar
    theutopiauniverse

    Sorry to hear that, but, you are right, the right one has yet to come along, everything happens for a reason, relax now and just enjoy the hols……

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    1. makingtimeforme Avatar
      makingtimeforme

      Thank you!

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      1. theutopiauniverse Avatar
        theutopiauniverse

        🙂

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  3. Not the Average Mama Avatar
    Not the Average Mama

    As you said last night, the person who was most excited about this after you, was me BUT that just means something better is around the corner. You made the decision to not settle but to do what was best for your family ❤

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    1. makingtimeforme Avatar
      makingtimeforme

      Thanks Jess. I am confident that we will find a house that suits us just perfectly!

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  4. laurelwolfelives Avatar
    laurelwolfelives

    😦 I’m so sorry. You didn’t elaborate on the reason but you’ll tell us if and when you get ready. I agree with not the average mama. It just means that something better is just right around the corner! 🙂

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    1. makingtimeforme Avatar
      makingtimeforme

      There were two giant cracks in the drive way that FHA says need to be fixed. The sellers refused to fix them and we couldn’t afford to fix them before closing and quite frankly I didn’t want to add something else onto my plate before closing. And the way that they just straight up refused to help, really rubbed me the wrong way. So, we took it as a sign.

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      1. laurelwolfelives Avatar
        laurelwolfelives

        Ah…yeah, FHA and VA are pretty strict with their rules and you’re right. If the owners weren’t willing to fix that or at least help you, there’s no telling what would happen later.
        Like a few of us have said…there’s something better around the corner! 🙂

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      2. makingtimeforme Avatar
        makingtimeforme

        Thank you so much friend!!! xoxox

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      3. laurelwolfelives Avatar
        laurelwolfelives

        You’re so welcome 🙂

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  5. yourenotaloneinthisworld Avatar
    yourenotaloneinthisworld

    Ah I’m so sorry to hear this but I couldn’t agree more, if it’s meant to happen it’ll happen.

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    1. makingtimeforme Avatar
      makingtimeforme

      Thank you!

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  6. Suze Avatar
    Suze

    when it is the right one, everything will fall into place..the funding will appear, the inspection will go well, there won’t be any surprises and you will be content with the decision instead of alternating between ecstasy and fear. Good luck sweetie!

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    1. makingtimeforme Avatar
      makingtimeforme

      Thank you!

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      Thank you friend 🙂

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      makingtimeforme

      Thank you friend 🙂 It was a pleasure to write for your blog. xoxox

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