How can it be 8 years?

8 years ago yesterday I finished walking in my 1 and only Breast Cancer 3 day walk.  3 days of hanging with a couple of old friends and meeting new friends.  Giving my time, energy and money to support a cause that was much bigger than me. 8 years ago today, shit hit the fan. 

3 1/2 years and 2 days

via 3 1/2 years and 2 days This post was originally written 3 years ago.  Paul and I have now been married for 6 1/2 years.  I am eternally grateful that he still chooses me every day.  I love being yours Paul Christie.

Stephanie C

A friend of mine wrote this about me and it made me so happy!  I had to share it.  All I have ever hoped for in going through my experience, the ups and the downs, was that someday I could help someone! Looks like maybe I have 🙂 Wednesday’s are going to be my days

Therapy Yesterday

So, in therapy I tend to flip flop between talking about two subjects.  One being my first marriage and two my current marriage. I try to deal with the demons and the anxiety about my first marriage.  Then I find tools to make myself better in my marriage this time around. We always start with